A couple of Sundays ago in church during the welcome time--you know, the typical turn around and meet your neighbor time--we were to ask our new acquaintance what their favorite side dish was during the holiday meals. We live in a large university town, so our congregation is peppered with students from all over the country. The young man I visited with was from New England, and his reply to the question was "stuffing."
I said, "Mine, too." In my mind I was envisioning the steaming cornbread mixture with the crispy edges which accompanies the turkey on our holiday tables. Then I realized we were not talking about the same dish. "Oh!" I said. "You're talking about actual stuffing inside the turkey with oysters and bread and ... ?"
He nodded and laughed along with me. I said, "Well, we're not talking about the same dish, are we?"
The idea of stuffing or dressing goes all the way back to the Roman era. Some concoction of starches
Prior to the 16th century in England the dish was called farce, from the French, but in Victorian England it became "dressing" and that is the name that the English brought with them to America. Today the terms "stuffing" and "dressing" are used interchangeably, and rarely sometimes called "forcemeat," a reference to both the forcing of the dish into the cavity of the animal and the French derivative. There is no historical evidence that dressing or stuffing was served at the first Thanksgiving, but it was definitely a dish that was used widely from the beginning of our country.
There are dozens of ways that one can prepare the stuffing or the dressing for the holiday table. Up until the time I was nine years old we lived in Indiana, and the dressing my grandmother and family made was this gray, gummy dish made with bread, and I don't know what else. I didn't care for it. But when we moved to Texas, and we were served dressing in the school cafeteria I discovered I did like this dressing made with cornbread and served at holiday meals. So when I married I set out to make dressing. I had no idea where to start, but I started by softening onions and celery in butter and just kind of stumbled my way through it. I think I ate most of it before I achieved the taste I wanted.
I rather believe that's the way most of the recipes floating around today came to be. The pioneers and
So, what is your preference? Do you stuff as our ancestors did? Or do you bake as a side dish? Either way, the holiday meals would not be the same without dressing -- or stuffing.
She lives in Waco, Texas, with her husband. They have eight grandchildren and five great grandchildren who keep them busier than they thought they would be in retirement.