In one of my books, I introduced
readers to “The Society for the Protection and Preservation of Male
Independence.” There actually was an
organization in Kansas by that name in the 1800s. I have no idea what happened to the group in
real life or even if they succeeded in what they’d set out to do, but after
reading a meeting notice in an old newspaper I knew I had to write about it
Men weren’t the only ones concerned
about independence during the nineteenth century. In 1861 fifty ladies of the first Church of
Milford in New York formed a society of old maids. It cost five dollars to join
the group and members had to vow never to marry. The interest earned from the money paid for
the annual dinner, with the principal going to the woman who remained unmarried
the longest.
According to an article in the New
York Times thirty years later in 1891 all but fifteen of the original fifty had
married. By then the prize money had
risen to a thousand dollars. I’ve not
been able to find the winner’s name—if, indeed, there was one—but the best part
of being a writer is where real life fails, inspiration takes over. Yep, you guessed it; this gave me an idea for
a series idea and that how the The Brides
of Last Chance Ranch was born.
Not all old meeting notices stir the
creative juices and some, like the “Society for the Prevention of People Being
Buried Alive,” give me the willies, but they do provide a fascinating insight
into the times.
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One club’s only stipulation for
membership was the ability to get to meetings—and in some western states that
was no easy task.
According to the newspapers, these
fledgling women’s clubs could be pretty chaotic as most early club members knew
to how to dress well, but didn’t have a clue as to Robert and his rules.
An interesting article written by a
club woman’s husband for the New York Tribune in 1910 set this writer’s muse on
fire. He wrote: “From what I gather, I
can see Robert himself aghast at what his well-intentioned rules of order can
do to a women’s club. What was
originally intended to be oil for the wheels turns out to be a gigantic
obstruction that can throw a meeting out of gear so that it never does right
itself. Robert’s Rules of order become rules of disorder.”
Apparently, he didn’t exaggerate. In American
Women’s History Doris Weatherford wrote:”The mechanics of
organizing—writing by-laws, electing officers and engaging in structured debate
was new to most women. A crucial factor in the success of future meetings was
the participation of Quaker women, who had long conducted meeting separate from
men.” (The lack of women able to conduct a business meeting probably explains
why the first meeting of the Seneca Falls Women’s Rights Convention was
conducted by a man.)
In the early days of women clubs there
was a reporter at every keyhole, no doubt waiting for some poor woman to prove
herself inept. By the end of the 19th
century, however, newspapers all but ignored clubs (except for suffrage).
Before a club could get publicity there would have to be, as one person put
it—a regular hair-pulling.
Club women took a lot of
heat and were accused of neglecting their families. In an 1898 San Francisco Call article titled
“Are Women’s Clubs Harmful to the Home?” Dr. George Fitch wrote: “Women’s clubs
are one of the last milestones toward national destruction, the goal toward
which this nation is at present rapidly journeying.
Disorder may have been the rule in
those early women’s clubs, but this provided valuable training and experience
that paid off when women turned their attention to the Suffrage and Temperance
Movements.
Yes, indeed, those early meeting
notices tell us much about the times and its people, just as present-day clubs
and organizations mirror today’s world.
However, even the most creative writer
of the future may be challenged to draw inspiration from “The Dull Man’s Club,”
whose only requirements for joining is to admit that you’re dull and a vow to keep
it that way. And who in their right mind would want to write about a hero
belonging to the “Society of Explosive Engineers?” On the other hand, if the muse call....
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Fun post! I'm thinking that maybe more business got accomplished over a cup of tea at the kitchen table than at some of these societies! Maybe this is so even now....thanks for the food for thought!
ReplyDeleteYou're probably right about the cup of tea, Connie. And they wouldn't have had to worry about Robert and his rules!
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