Showing posts with label Downton Abbey. Show all posts
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Monday, August 23, 2021

WANTED: LADY’S MAID

By Mary Davis

Must have a comprehensive knowledge of fashion and changing trends; expertly coif high society lady’s hair; sew, mend, and complete alterations; remove all manner of stains from every kind of fabric, including shoes, handbags, and furs; must be able to keep track of all the lady’s belongings and see to it none of them are out of place or missing; bring a breakfast tray to her mistress’s room or other requested meals; draw a perfect bath; and always, always conduct herself as a lady in all situations.


Basically, a lady’s maid had to be able to do everything. She wore many hats and attended to her mistress’s every need, want, or whim. She was the one person who was allowed in the mistress’s chambers except for cleaning. A chambermaid who came in to dust and clean floors must do so when the mistress was out and should never be seen in the room by the mistress. A high level of trust developed between a mistress and her lady’s maid.

 

In the series Downton Abbey, they showed the high level of trust between Lady Mary and her lady's maid, as well as the lady's maid being at her mistress's beck and call in this scene.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6SElyaUFQs

 

Lady’s maids enjoyed a somewhat improved social status to other servants but not as high as a lady’s companion. Though a lady’s maid might begin her official work after the rest of the household staff, she is at the beck and call of her mistress, regardless of the hour. She must ensure her mistress’s privacy in everyday situations and on the occasions the mistress falls ill. A lady’s maid’s work is rarely ever done.


A lady’s maid’s day might look something like this:

 

   ~Rise early enough to ensure she is up and dressed before her mistress wakes.


   ~Wake her mistress at a specified time if desired.


   ~After her mistress’s morning ablutions (washing up), she will help with dressing and doing her hair.

 

   ~Once the lady is all put together and has vacated her chambers for the day, the first order of business for the lady’s maid is to air the room by pulling back drapes, opening windows, and drawing apart bed curtains.


   ~The lady’s maid will then tidy the room by putting away anything that was used for washing up and getting dressed. The room must be returned to its original state, as though nothing had been touched. Clean wash basins, glasses, and water jugs of soap scum and fingerprints. If a stray thread has landed on the carpet, this, too, must be removed.

 

   ~She will then wash hair combs, remove stains from clothes, starch any clothing that needs it, and various other duties.


   ~Next comes the needle and thread work of mending, darning, and other sewing tasks. The lady’s maid must sort through the soiled clothes for anything that needs repair before being sent out to the laundress. She will determine if an article is beyond use so it can be discarded.

 

   ~She must also keep meticulous inventory of ALL of her mistress’s pieces of clothing to ensure that everything which is sent out to be cleaned returns. This includes writing up a list of costs on each garment’s upkeep. Being the steward of her mistress’s belongings, she must pay close attention to everything that leaves the room.

 

   ~Once her duties are completed, she can improve her mind with reading or spend some time sewing. Her evenings can often be for leisure until her mistress needs to change her clothes or get undressed at the end of the day. Once again, everything must be put to rights. She doesn’t get to sleep until her mistress does.


   ~Because she is afforded privileges other household staff aren’t and she has the mistress’s ear, she is often the subject of jealously from her peers.

 

Being a lady’s maid isn’t the simple job it might appear to be at first glance, but these women have many talents and skills. I don’t think I would have been very good at the job. I would probably get fired the first day.


In The Débutante’s Secret, Geneviève Marseille is in need of a lady’s maid, but they are in short supply in Kamola. Deputy Montana comes to the rescue by suggesting his sister for the job.


***NOW AVAILABLE***

THE DÉBUTANTE'S SECRET (Quilting Circle 4)

Will Geneviève open her heart to a love she never imagined?

Washington State 1894

Geneviève Marseille has one purpose in coming to Kamola—stopping her brother from digging up the past. Deputy Montana has lived a simple life. But when a fancy French lady steps off the train and into his arms, his modest existence might not be enough anymore. A nemesis from Aunt Henny's past arrives in town threatening her with jail. Will she flee as she’d done all those years ago, or stand her ground in the town she’s made her home? When secrets come out, will the lives of Geneviève, Montana, and Aunt Henny ever be the same?

 

MARY DAVIS is a bestselling, award-winning novelist of over two dozen titles in both historical and contemporary themes. Her latest release is THE DAMSEL’S INTENT (The Quilting Circle Book 3, Salah Award Winner). The Quilting Circle Book 4, THE DÉBUTANTE'S SECRET, will release August of 2021. Some of her other recent titles include; "Holly and Ivy" in A Bouquet of Brides CollectionCourting Her Amish HeartThe Widow’s PlightCourting Her Secret Heart , “Zola’s Cross-Country Adventure” in The MISSAdventure Brides Collection , and Courting Her Prodigal Heart . 2019 titles include The Daughter's Predicament and "Bygones" in Thimbles and Threads. She is a member of ACFW and active in critique groups.
Mary lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband of thirty-seven years and one cat. She has three adult children and three incredibly adorable grandchildren. Find her online at:

Sunday, May 3, 2015

The Truth about Epergnes




by Nancy Moser

Today I’m going to talk about epergnes. 

 Aye-what?

That’s what I thought.

First off, it’s a strange word.  And how do you pronounce it?  Ep-urn? A-pair-g-nay? A-perg-nez? Pardon the last, my Midwestern roots are showing.

Honestly, I had no idea.  I had to look it up.  It’s i-ˈpərn, ā”.

That didn’t help, so I had Webster’s say it aloud:  Ee-‘purn.
Why didn’t they just say so?

That settled, I looked into what it is.  It’s a vase. A vase with arms. Back in 1754 they decided they needed such a thing to sit as a centerpiece.

But what did they put in it?

History says the arms often held flowers or sweetmeats. The latter is definitely not a Midwestern term--though it just means something sweet.  At first I thought they were talking sweet-breads which elicited a horrible image of cooked glands and organs in the middle of a table. Yuck.
Epergne is a French word and comes from epergne meaning "saving" or "economy".  In the 18th century the many courses of a formal meal were put out at once, so the epergne was an economical way to save space by letting one serving piece provide many types of food.  In the 19th century, the style of dining favored a la russe, which involved having each food course brought in separately, so the table wasn't so crowded.  But the epergne didn't die, though it became more ornamental rather than functional.

Learning all this, I had a revelation.  Didn’t I have one of these things in my hutch?

Lo and behold, I did! I love antique silver and glass, and eons ago bought an epergne, never knowing quite what to do with it.  So I dug it out and studied it.  What would a modern woman, 260 years after its inception, put in her epergne?

My choices were very personal, but I bet if a vote were taken, many of you would agree with me.  I chose popcorn, jelly beans (the red and orange ones are mine, you can have the white and pink ones), sunflower seeds (a staple when I write), and ranch oyster crackers (find the recipe here.)


Epergne from Chatillion-Demeril home
Dessert setting ala the Osborne House
I've seen these centerpieces around. When I travel, I like to visit historic homes.  On the right is an epergne in the Chatillion-Demeril house in St. Louis—a wonderful home from the 1860’s, complete with furnishings and tours.  I'm sure some of the historic homes in Newport, Charleston, and the mansions of Great Britain sport epergnes.  On the left is a reproduction of a dessert luncheon from Osborne House on the Isle of Wight--Queen Victoria's home.

Though originally made in silver, glass was added in the 19th century.  Got a hankering for one? You can still buy them—some of which are very...inventive?   

If you look carefully in the media, you can spot them in movies and period TV shows like Downton Abbey*, or "Age of Innocence." They were a staple in formal dining.  Epergnes definitely belong in Summerfield Manor, the setting of my latest book, Love of the Summerfields (apologies for the shameless plug.) I can't imagine them dining without one.
Do you have an epergne?  What do you put in yours?//

NANCY MOSER is the best-selling author of 25 novels, including Love of the Summerfields, Christy Award winner, Time Lottery; Washington’s Lady, Mozart’s Sister, The Journey of Josephine Cain, and Masquerade. Nancy has been married for forty years—to the same man. They have three grown children and five grandchildren, and live in the Midwest. She’s earned a degree in architecture; run a business with her husband; traveled extensively in Europe; and has performed in various theatres and choirs. She knits voraciously, kills all her houseplants, and can wire an electrical fixture without getting shocked. She is a fan of anything antique—humans included. Author Website, History Blog, Pinterest, Facebook, Twitter, Good Reads  


* link deleted at request of publisher because of new link which we chose not to provide at this time.


Read my latest book Love of the Summerfields1880 England. The lives and loves of manor and village intertwine. Earl and shopkeeper, countess and clerk—all will be stunned and transformed by a secret that begs to be revealed. When the Weston family returns to Summerfield Manor at the close of the London social season, both village and manor relax into their normal existence. But for four women, turmoil awaits. Each must battle the restrictions of her position as her faith and character are tested. Each will have a choice to make between her own happiness and a truth that will turn their carefully-ordered world upside down.