_By Tiffany Amber Stockton
From lighthouse keepers to childhood stories, here's a look at the Assateague Lighthouse through the lens of history and coastal life.
A Look Beyond the Lighthouse
When I was a little girl, my parents would take us down to Chincoteague to visit Pop-Pop who owned a barbershop on the island. Sitting in his apartment above the shop, perched on his knees alongside my older brother, I learned early that history and imagination often shared the same chair.
Pop-Pop was a master storyteller. The ocean was always involved, and so were the many storms. Somehow, in every single tale, he was the hero who came to rescue us. Looking back now, he wouldn't have had it any other way.
We’d build the stories together—layer by layer—until they became grand adventures. In one of my favorites, we were lost at sea in a small boat, waves crashing around us, when Pop-Pop appeared as the lighthouse keeper, high above the water, making sure the light shone bright enough to guide us safely home.
And that was my first introduction to the famous lighthouse on the barrier island across the inlet.
The Assateague Lighthouse has stood watch since 1833, built to guide ships past the dangerous shoals off the Virginia coast, after shipwrecks piled up along the coastline. Located halfway between the Delaware Bay and the Chesapeake Bay, its red-and-white bands are unmistakable, and you can see them today from many parts of Chincoteague. Now, it's a place people climb for the view, but at one time, it was a place where people lived and a beacon that saved lives.
One of those people was David Watson, the lighthouse’s first keeper. Watson and his family moved into the lighthouse and the attached home shortly after construction completed. At that time, the lighthouse consisted solely of red brick. Every evening, the eleven oil lamps set in fourteen-inch reflectors had to be lit. Every morning, they had to be extinguished, cleaned, and prepared again. Weather didn’t matter. Illness didn’t matter. Those lights could not fail.
Keeper logs and service records tell us the
facts of the lighthouse—dates, duties, years of service—but they leave out the quieter truths. Watson's wife lived that life alongside him. Lighthouse wives often acted as unofficial assistants, managing households in isolation, raising children far from neighbors, and stepping in when their husbands were sick or away. Other than a small village to the northeast, the keepers remained quite isolated.
I imagine evenings after the lights were set, the tower humming faintly with wind. Children asleep. A simple meal shared. Conversations about storms, supplies, or the long stretch of winter ahead. The bridge connecting Assateague to Chincoteague wasn't built until 1962. That's a lot of years to live so cut off from everyday life with friends and other people.
The lighthouse remained active until 1933, when it was decommissioned and replaced by automated aids powered by electricity. When I look at it now, I don’t just see brick and iron. I see my grandfather’s stories. I see keeper families like the Watsons, living ordinary lives in extraordinary circumstances. I see a steady light meant to guide others home.
Maybe that’s why Pop-Pop chose that role for himself in our make-believe adventures. Because a lighthouse keeper doesn’t conquer the sea. He simply stays where he’s supposed to be, doing his job, night after night, so others can find their way.
NOW IT'S YOUR TURN:
* How do you think lighthouse life shaped marriages and families compared to mainland communities?
* What details of everyday life do you wish historical records preserved more often?
* Are there stories from your childhood where imagination and family history blended together?
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BIO
Tiffany Amber Stockton has embellished stories since childhood, thanks to a very active imagination and notations of talking entirely too much. Honing those skills led her to careers as an
award-winning and best-selling author and
speaker, while also working as a professional copywriter/copyeditor. She loves to share life-changing products and ideas with others to help them
get rooted in truth and live a life of purpose.
Currently, she lives with her husband and fellow author,
Stuart Vaughn Stockton, along with their two children, two dogs, and five cats in southeastern Kentucky. In her 20+ years as a professional writer, she has sold twenty-six (26) books so far and has agent representation with Tamela Murray of the Steve Laube Agency. You can find her on
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