Showing posts with label Cynthia Roemer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cynthia Roemer. Show all posts

Monday, April 14, 2025

A Note to Cynthia…Until We Meet Again By Donna Schlachter




There are some authors that you just seem to know, even though you’ve never met. For me, you, Cynthia, are one of those. It seems that every group I belong to, every large Christian writers’ conference I attend, many blog posts I have read, and even the blogging group I contribute to regularly includes you. You are everywhere!

I feel like I know you…not in the way your family knows you, of course. Daughter, sister, wife, mother, mother-in-law, auntie. And definitely not the way your close circle of friends knows you. Confidante. Party planner. Vacation partner. School chum. Bridesmaid. Mother of your son’s best friend. Life of the party. Quiet country girl.

And what of Chad, the cat? Spoiled by this human who met his every need—and then some. Maybe you being a cat person makes another connection for us.

Or perhaps it’s that you won a writing contest in high school—okay, so mine was only an honorable mention, but for me, that’s when the writing bug bit. Perhaps for you, too.

Although you cut your teeth on writing articles and short stories, you later ventured into books. And such tales! History and romance and hope and the love of words woven into a tapestry that delighted all the senses.

And I’m not the only one. I’ve read notes on your Facebook page left by friends and fans alike, who all recognize that this world is poorer, and heaven is richer, because you’ve gone on ahead.

Several described you as a pillar of faith and strength. I think that was never more evident than in the valiant battle you waged in recent months. While some might mistakenly say you lost that war, we know differently.

You have once again proven that death has no hold over those who call Jesus their Lord and Savior.

Know this: you live on in your books. In your family and friends. In the articles and short stories that we never tire of reading.

Save me a comfy chair in the library, Cynthia.



Your ever hopeful “friend”, Donna

www.donnaschlachter.com




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Saturday, March 15, 2025

WEDDING SHIVAREES - TRADITIONS OF THE PAST


by Cynthia Roemer

Weddings. What a joy. I was excited to help my oldest son and daughter-in-law plan their wedding as they prepared to take their vows three years ago. Nowadays, wedding celebrations include banquets, toasts, honeymoons, and photo shoots. But there was a time when...



Newlyweds (Public Domain)



It’s almost a forgotten bit of wedding traditions–the shivaree. If you’ve never heard of one, you’re not alone. A shivaree was a raucous and fun-loving way to celebrate a newly married couple’s nuptials. It took place days, weeks, even months following the actual wedding. The element of surprise was key.

Though more prevalent in the 1800’s, my parents have told stories of shivarees that took place in their growing up years (mid-1900s). According to them, the shivaree began with a late-night wake-up call of banging pans and noise-makers. Then the group would serenade the couple with songs such as Let Me Call You Sweetheart. Afterward, the late-night visitors would join the couple for snacks and desserts, often provided by the newlyweds.





Roberto Nickson on upsplash

Nineteenth-Century Shivarees

Shivarees of the nineteenth century were much bolder and at times down right ornery. I didn’t realize just how ornery until I did some research for a scene in my novel, Under Prairie Skies. Set in 1855, the scene has my main characters, Chad and Charlotte, and a host of others, traveling by the light of the moon to the unsuspecting couple’s home.

There, the bride and groom are awakened by rifle fire and banging pans. The barefoot groom is then blindfolded and spirited away in his nightshirt into the timber and left to fend for himself until daybreak. All the while, his poor, bewildered bride is wailing and calling his name. Not the best way to wish a new couple a joyous marriage! I won’t share any spoilers by telling how the scene evolves, but I will say Chad’s actions further endear him to Charlotte.



Will Steward on upsplash - fire in woods


Shivaree Fears


Though I’ve not participated in or even known anyone to be shivareed, my husband attended one for his cousin when he was a boy. So, when we married, he had me more than a little nervous we would end up with his extended family outside our bedroom window some dark night banging pans and serenading us.

My fears never came to fruition, but all that first summer, I did a lot of baking and learned to be a very light sleeper!

Cynthia Roemer is an inspirational, award-winning author who enjoys planting seeds of hope into the hearts of readers. Raised in the cornfields of rural Illinois. She enjoys spinning tales set in the backdrop of the mid-1800's prairie and Civil War era. Cynthia feels blessed the Lord has fulfilled her life-long dream of being a published novelist. It's her prayer that her stories will encourage readers in their faith. She and her husband reside on their farm in central Illinois. Visit Cynthia online at: www.cynthiaroemer.com

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Thursday, May 3, 2018

Nineteenth Century Cowboys ~ Truths and Legends

This month, I'm turning my slot over to my critique partner historical novelist, Cynthia Roemer. 



Most likely the term “cowboy” dredges up images of John Wayne with his rough and ready swagger and his knack for blasting his way out of tough situations. Or perhaps it’s the glamor and romance of the singing cowboys, Roy Rogers or Gene Autry that you recall.

John Wayne (Public Domain)
Through the magic of modern media, cowboys have become larger than life, able to fight their way out of any battle to win their lady’s heart. But, while this Hollywood depiction of cowboys makes for fascinating stories, one has to wonder how much is truth and how much is legend?


Vaqueros (Public Domain)

The first cowboys were Mexicans known as vaqueros, the Spanish word for “cow”. These men were usually young and unmarried, and in need of money. Skilled with a rope, as well as in the saddle, these young men worked hard to herd cattle and train horses for well-to-do ranchers. By the 1700’s, these ranches had spread northward into what is now Texas, New Mexico, and Arizona.  Cowboys were instrumental in the Western expansion.

(Public Domain)

Being a cowboy was anything but glamorous. They often put in fifteen-hour days, much of the time in the saddle, herding cattle, rounding up strays, or breaking in horses. Pay was minimal, typically $25-$40 a month. They had the reputation of being rowdy and often spent their earnings a quickly as they made them.

Stock Photo owned by Pamela S. Meyers

On a cattle drive, their diet consisted of bacon, beans, beef jerky, canned peaches…beans and more beans! Cowboys were generally small-framed men, not the burly sort portrayed in movies. But they had to be tough, able to endure many grueling days on the trail. Within a few weeks, a dozen cattlemen could herd thousands of head of cattle hundreds of miles.
 
Typical cowboy clothes.
Stock photo owned by Pamela S. Meyers
Cowboys generally wore clothing to suit their rough conditions: heeled boots, spurs, durable shirts and pants, bandanas, and leather chaps to protect their legs. Their large broad-brimmed hats were helpful in shading them from the sun’s heat. Some of the larger hats, often referred to as 10-gallon hats for their large size, came in handy for toting water for themselves and their horses.


Cowboys loading cattle into RR cars

By the mid-1800’s, the coming of the railroad brought new marketing opportunities for cattleman. Cowboys could now round up their herds and ship them by rail from one end of the country to the other. Branding was used to distinguish one cattleman’s herd from another.


Winters were hard on the toughest cowboys.
Following the Civil War, things began to change for cowboys. The fragmented nation began to expand further west, many claiming private land and erecting fences. The range wars between farmers and ranchers made herding cattle more of a challenge. But the most devastating blow to the cattleman came in the winter of 1886-87 when a period of sub-zero temperatures blanketed the west, killing thousands of cattle. Some view this as the beginning of the end for the cowboy era.

The cowboy story will forever be an indelible part of the rich history of the United States. Perhaps that’s one of the reasons I chose a cattleman as the hero of my new novel. There’s something nostalgic about the life of a cowboy. The facts shed truth of the cowboys’ rough and rugged lifestyle. Ah, but the legends of the Silver Screen paint a picture of cowboys that leave us with a sense of wonder and romance we’ll forever delight in!

Stock photo owned by Pamela S. Meyers


Resources. 

Photo of cowboys herding cattle: Kathy Weiser, owner/editor, Legends of America. https://www.ledgendsofamerica.com

Winter herding picture: Russell Friedman, Cowboys of the Wild, Go Show; Wikepedia source.



Cynthia Roemer was raised in the cornfields of rural Illinois, She enjoys spinning tales set in the backdrop of the 1800s prairie. She writes from her family farm in central Illinois where she resides with her husband and their two college-aged sons. Her debut novel, Under This Same Sky released with Mantle Rock Publishing in April, 2017. Book 2 in her Prairie Sky Series, Under Prairie Skies just recently released April 10, 2018.
Under Prairie Skies
~ Beyond shattered dreams lies a realm of possibilities ~

Illinois prairie ~1855




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