Add Regency Fun to Your Holiday: Regency Games

In Georgian and Regency England, the Christmas holidays were spent a little differently than we spend them now (the Twelve Days of Christmas actually started Christmas Day and ended January 5, the day before Epiphany), but one thing hasn't changed: friends and family gathered together to celebrate. There were parties, balls, and masques to enjoy, but there were also plenty of games to be played at home, too.

Here are a few of the games they enjoyed. Some might be familiar to us, while others sound downright dangerous!

Bullet Pudding: This is not a pudding (dessert) at all, but a very messy game in which a large bowl is filled with flour,. The flour is mounded so it looks like a pudding. A bullet is laid on the top of the mound. Players take turns "slicing" the "pudding" with a knife. The person who is in the act of cutting a slice when the bullet falls into the flour must then dip his or her face into the flour and poke about for the bullet--no hands. The bullet is then retrieved with his or her teeth.

Snapdragon: “Christmas gambol: raisins and almonds being put into a bowl of brandy, and the candles extinguished, the spirit is set on fire, and the company scramble for the raisins.” (Francis Grose Dictionary of the Vulgar Tongue, 1811). Participants eat the raisins and almonds, and apparently try not to get burned in the process. Snapdragon was popular since the sixteenth-century.

Hot Cockles: One person lays his or her head in another person's lap, hiding one's eyes, and must guess who is striking him from behind. 

Apple Bobbing: Just like we do today in the autumn.

Oranges and Lemons: Similar to "London Bridge," participants file in pairs between two players who hold hands in the air, creating an "arch." Participants sing a song, and in the last part, these lines are sung:

Here comes a candle to light you to bed.
Here comes a chopper to chop off your head.
(Chip chop, chip chop, the last man's dead.)

Oranges and Lemons by Agnes Rose Bouvier (1842–92). Public Domain

The "arch" is lowered, capturing a pair, and now the pair must join the players who made the original arch, lengthening the arch and increasing the risk for other players to be captured.

Puss in the Corner: Something like tag with five participants, one person ("puss") stands in the center of the room. The other participants stand, one in each corner. They must swap places without being caught by "puss". When one is caught, they become "puss."

Hunt the Slipper: A slipper is hidden in a room and everyone searches for it. The winner got to hide it for the next round.

Spillikins: Similar to Jack Straws or Pick Up Sticks, sticks of wood or ivory are spilled onto a table and must be removed, one by one, without disturbing the others.

Bridge of Sighs or Beast of Burden: A risque-looking game where a gentleman gets down on all fours and a lady sits on his back (he is either a bridge or a beast, depending on the game). Other gentlemen present may kiss the lady!

Rhyming Games: Participants are given three rhyming words and must create a poem with them. 

Charades: Participants pantomimed words, activities, or perhaps book titles, much like we do today.

Parlor Theatricals: Using scripts (written by the participants or purchased), participants acted out plays. Home theatricals could be serious business and participants wore costumes and rehearsed the productions.

***

Your Turn:

What games does your family play at Christmastime?

***


BIO: Susanne Dietze began writing love stories in high school, casting her friends in the starring roles. Today, she's the award-winning author of almost a dozen historical romances who's seen her work on the ECPA and Publisher's Weekly Bestseller Lists for Inspirational Fiction. Married to a pastor and the mom of two, Susanne lives in California and enjoys fancy-schmancy tea parties, genealogy, and curling up on the couch with a costume drama and a plate of nachos. 

Her latest release is The Rails to Love Collection.

White House Weddings: Maria Monroe

Maria Monroe

The first White House wedding of a president’s child was that of Maria Monroe, daughter of fifth president James Monroe and his wife Elizabeth, to White House staffer (and son of Elizabeth’s sister) Samuel Gouverneur on March 9, 1820.

Maria (pronounced “Moriah”) was seventeen, accomplished, and madly in love with the dashing Samuel. But her wedding caused a bit of talk, and not the good kind.

Maria moved into the White House when she was fourteen years old. Her mother, Elizabeth, viewed the role of First Lady far differently than her predecessor, Dolley Madison. While Mrs. Madison was a popular hostess and public figure, Elizabeth Monroe was reserved and concerned with propriety. Influenced by her time in Europe, she adopted a protocol she felt was more befitting the office of President: limiting access to him and his family.

This protocol was most profoundly executed by refusing to make or receive calls or socialize with political or diplomatic spouses, believing such familiarity would imply official recognition of the president. While this style of etiquette might have been familiar in Europe, it was not well-received in America. (It's also interesting to note that even before the Monroes entered the White House, they lived in Washington D.C. for seven years and rarely entertained.)

Elizabeth Monroe, First Lady

The new protocol was not well received. Politicians and diplomats felt snubbed, if not outraged. When the Monroes determined not to host the traditional Independence Day open house, however, the public was insulted, too.

This was the atmosphere in which Maria Monroe planned her wedding.

Or rather, in which she tried to plan her wedding. Elizabeth Monroe was ill, perhaps suffering from epilepsy, so she recruited her 33-yr old daughter Eliza Hay to be her representative in many duties. 

Eliza Monroe Hay

When Eliza learned that a Russian diplomat inquired about paying his respects at Maria and Samuel's wedding, Eliza put her foot down, citing protocol. Samuel and Maria resented the intrusion, especially when it came to the guest list, but Elizabeth and James Monroe approved Eliza’s changes, and nothing could be done.

In the end, forty two guests—all family and close friends approved by Eliza—gathered in the White House, possibly the Blue Room, which was then called the Elliptical Room. The Rev. William Hawley of St. John’s Episcopal Church officiated. Gifts were discouraged, but they arrived anyway, including a bas relief of the teenage bride and a pianoforte from her parents.

On display at the James Monroe Museum

Directly following, the group adjourned to the State Dining Room for a meal. Since the White House had been burned by the British six years before (during the War of 1812) and rebuilt, the State Dining room, like other rooms, was refurnished in 1817. President Monroe himself ordered green silk wallpaper, two Italian Carrara marble mantelpieces, and a 14-foot long gilded bronze plateau centerpiece from France that could be shortened depending on the size of the table. 

Also added at this time were vermeil flatware and silver dishes (place setting for 72, plus tureens, chafing dishes, and more). The expense was great, which was another complaint lodged by opponents of the Monroes.

The local paper included a 34-word write-up of the wedding. Since no diplomats, reporters, or political cronies were invited, there was apparently very little to say on the matter.

While it is true that early 19^th-century weddings were not lavish, and today we would view a family wedding as a private affair, the circumstances surrounding Maria’s wedding were ill-received by Washington society. It should be noted, too, that this was not the wedding Maria or Samuel wanted. They urged President Monroe for a formal reception to smooth ruffled feathers and extend a nod to their friends. He eventually relented, but Elizabeth and Eliza refused to invite the diplomatic corps.

In response, Samuel and Maria scheduled a round of balls--although some of the guests still felt the celebrations were thin. Louisa Adams, whose husband John Quincy Adams was then Secretary of State, came home from one of the receptions disappointed that she received no cake, and therefore her young niece had none to put under her pillow to dream about her future husband.

Nevertheless, Maria and Samuel enjoyed a happy marriage until her death in 1850. They had three children, and Samuel’s role in politics continued, and he became a member of the New York State Assembly. They opened their home to James Monroe after Elizabeth’s death in 1830, and the former president died there. 

As for Eliza? She had a reputation as a “domineering perfectionist who alienated much of Washington’s social and diplomatic worlds with her pretensions” (All the President’s Children, Doug Wead). Whether or not this is fair, one fact cannot be disputed: the first White House wedding of a Presidential child was evidently charged with emotion…just like many a modern day wedding.

**

Your turn: Did you watch Prince William and Kate Middleton get married on TV?

**

BIO:

Susanne Dietze began writing love stories in high school, casting her friends in the starring roles. Today, she writes in the hope that her historical romances will encourage and entertain others. A pastor’s wife and mom of two, she loves fancy-schmancy tea parties, travel, and curling up on the couch with a costume drama and a plate of nachos. Susanne is the author of six new and upcoming novellas; her latest, One Word From You, is in White Fire’s Austen in Austin Volume I. You can visit her on her website, www.susannedietze.com.

For further reading:

http://www.whitehouseweddings.com/maria-monroe.html

http://www.firstladies.org/biographies/firstladies.aspx?biography=5